Monday, December 20, 2010
Stereotypes 101
We all know the definition of the word, but, just for the record, my handy-dandy Apple dictionary defines stereotype as "a widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing." I, personally, fit a number of stereotypes about Italian Americans -- I enjoy conversation around a good meal, for instance. If someone were to say this about me I shouldn't be offended, because it's true. On the other hand, if someone were to say that as an Italian American I probably have relatives who are involved in organized crime, well, then I'd have a right to be offended, yes? The first is okay, because it's a "positive" stereotype, while the second is offensive, because it's a "negative" stereotype. So, when a white person tells me that "African Americans are good at sports," that may be a stereotype, but it's also true ("Just look at the NBA!" a person once exclaimed as proof), and besides, it's meant as a compliment, so what's the problem?
The first problem, of course, is that stereotypes deny people something that most of us value very much for ourselves, and that's individuality. (If you don't believe me, just mention the history of white racism among a group of whites -- chances are you'll hear protests along the lines of, "Some whites may be racist, but not me! Don't group us all together -- I'm an individual!) It doesn't matter if the stereotypical comments are well intended -- as social justice activist Paul Gorski notes, the impact of our words and attitudes matter more than the intent behind them.*
The second problem with perpetuating so-called "positive" stereotypes is that there is often an unspoken continuation of the idea being expressed -- i.e., it's lucky that African Americans are good at sports, because they're not so good at other things.
As I said, this is all very basic stuff. Yet, basic or not, the stereotypes persist. I hear them because they're out there, and they're damaging to all of us. So, my wish for us during this holiday season is health, happiness, and maybe a little self-reflection mixed in with our holiday cheer.
*http://edchange.org/handouts/paradigmshifts_race.pdf
Sunday, November 28, 2010
"I'm Nothing"
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Muslims Make Him Nervous
When I first heard of the exchange, I thought that maybe Williams' words were taken out of context, as was the case in the Shirley Sherrod incident. Perhaps Williams was admitting to these feelings in a moment of self-reflection, recognizing that he, like many of us, slips into prejudiced and stereotypical thinking, but actively resists this kind of narrow-mindedness. After reading the entire transcript, though, I think it's much more complicated than that. Williams' implication that people who identify themselves as Muslims through their dress are immediately suspect is troubling, of course, because it implies that if people don't want to be seen as terrorists they shouldn't dress like terrorists, and makes no attempt to separate radical Islamic terrorists from the general Muslim population. These words, taken alone, seem to support the notion that all Muslims are terrorists. (His statement actually reminded me of a comment someone made recently about a man we passed on the street who was wearing a turban. "That makes me nervous," the person said.) So, based on this one quote, it did appear that Williams was agreeing with O'Reilly's incendiary assertion that "Muslims killed us" on 9/11.
However, if you read the entire transcript*, you will find that Williams does recognize the danger and unfairness of stereotypes, and speaks against this kind of thinking several times during the exchange. For example, he says, "Wait a second though, wait, hold on, because if you said Timothy McVeigh, the Atlanta bomber, these people who are protesting against homosexuality at military funerals, very obnoxious, you don’t say first and foremost, we got a problem with Christians. That’s crazy."
So, are Williams' words troubling? Yes, in a way. If people in Muslim clothing make us "nervous," we need to think more deeply about these feelings. But were these words taken out of context? Yes, I think so, especially when you consider how hard it is to get a word in edgewise in a venue like The O'Reilly Factor. Should he have been fired? I'll leave that to the folks who know much more about news media employee policy than I do. But it sure feels a lot like censorship to me.
*You can read the transcript here:
http://thinkprogress.org/2010/10/21/npr-fires-juan-williams/
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Adventures in The R Word
"The main character, Rachel, seems too sheltered to be a modern teenager."
"There should be sex in the novel. All teenagers have sex."
"The black characters don't seem black enough."
"It's not racist enough. Someone should use the N-word."
But this next one has been the most curious to me:
"It's too racist. No one behaves that way any more. Surely the election of President Obama shows that we're past all this."
You'll have to read the novel to decide for yourself what you think (and I hope you will!), but the idea that racism is a thing of the past is a hard one to argue against. True, we've come a long way in this country since the days of The Civil Rights Movement. However, I believe that both individual and structural racism still exist. Just the other day a friend who is black told me how the local police were watching their house because there were a lot of family members coming in and out, due to an illness in the family. They'd been alerted by a "concerned" neighbor. This happened just last month, not 40 years ago. And I think the film maker Davis Guggenheim does a pretty good job of pointing out structural inequities that still exist, caused by the legacy of racism, in his new documentary, "Waiting for 'Superman.'" The film is an indictment of our American educational system and isn't specifically about race. But it makes the racial inequities of the public school system pretty hard to ignore. Catch it if you can and let me know what you think.
More on The R Word later.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Why Can't We Just be Colorblind?
Sunday, September 26, 2010
But it's funny!
Sunday, September 12, 2010
So What is Racism?
Sunday, August 29, 2010
I work hard for my money!
Sunday, August 22, 2010
White Privilege, Part II
Any conversation about white privilege has to start with Peggy McIntosh's essay, "White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack." McIntosh says it so well -- she describes white privilege as "an invisible weightless knapsack of special provisions, maps, passports, codebooks, visas, clothes, tools, and blank checks." She lists the everyday benefits of being white -- the big things and the little things. Read it for yourself at
http://www.case.edu/president/aaction/UnpackingTheKnapsack.pdf
I know I had never thought of any of this before I read this essay for the first time, and that's the thing about white privilege. It's invisible to those of us who benefit from it. I didn't have to think about race because, well, I'm white. I don't really have a race. I'm just regular, which means that, for me, everyone else is irregular. I never thought those words consciously, of course – it’s just an unstated (invisible) way of looking at the world.
Here’s an example. Last year there were two scary incidents at my son’s school involving possible “stranger danger.” Here’s how they were described on the school website (I’ve removed names of streets and school district):
Incident 1: A Hispanic man driving a silver two door Honda or Nissan approached a group of students requesting they get in his car. They wisely refused, however even after the refusal the vehicle followed them for some time. A police report has been filed.
Incident 2: While a group of students were throwing a shot put at the track, a red vehicle stopped in the turning lane and began taking pictures of them. A police report has been filed.
What do you notice? The person in incident 1 was clearly described as Hispanic. Incident 2? Apparently the car was taking the pictures. I happen to know that the man in the car was white, because my son was one of the kids throwing shot put who reported it, and he clearly stated that the guy was white. Yet that didn’t make it into the report, because in this mostly white school district, whiteness is assumed. Obviously, there’s a lot more to this topic than this, but it’s a small example of how one aspect of white privilege operates.
Maybe you’re thinking, hey, I’m not privileged! I’ve worked hard for everything I have! More on that in next week’s blog.Sunday, August 8, 2010
What is White Privilege, Anyway?
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Sherrod, One More Time
If you’ve been listening, watching, or reading the news at all this week you’re probably tired of hearing about the Shirley Sherrod fiasco by now. (In case you haven’t been watching, here’s what happened – an exposé style blogger, Andrew Breitbart, posted a brief video clip of an African American USDA official named Shirley Sherrod saying that she did not fully assist a farmer in need because he was white. Big hoopla, Ms. Sherrod denounced by NAACP and White House, forced to resign. Turns out the clip was taken out of context – the incident was decades ago, and Ms. Sherrod had recognized her own prejudice and helped the farmer to save his farm. More big hoopla, lots of apologies, Ms. Sherrod offered new job.)
This story has more layers than the onion I’m about to add to my potato salad (I really am making potato salad today). Why was the video posted? Why were leaders, both white and African American, so quick to speak and act? Why do charges of “reverse racism” rise to the top so quickly? Research shows that many whites feel racially victimized by affirmative action policies, among other things, and stories like this confirm and validate these feelings. If I’m honest, I’ll admit that I’ve sensed that little, “Ah-ha, you see!” at stories of whites being treated unfairly – maybe some of you have sensed it, too. In terms of the African American leadership who jumped on the story, I imagine they felt much like my mother when JFK ran for office – although Catholic, she didn’t vote for him because she feared a Catholic President, in avoiding favoritism, would ultimately hurt Catholics.
But I’d like to suggest we see the Sherrod story as a metaphor for how many of us view policies related to race. We saw a brief clip and passed judgment (that’s not fair! she’s racist!) without knowing what came before or after. We see a college scholarship that whites are not eligible for and pass judgment (that’s racist!) without knowing the context – the decades, the centuries of racism that excluded all but whites from institutions of higher education. We hear of a firefighters’ exam that was thrown out by the city of New Haven because African Americans failed, and shout, racist! without knowing of the history of discrimination in that city. Yes, fairness is important. But judgment without context can never be fair.Sunday, July 18, 2010
Was Michael Jackson Still Black?
Strange question, right? But it made perfect sense to the thirteen-year-old who asked it: if race is determined by phenotype (especially, in his mind, skin color), was Michael Jackson, whose skin was as light as many white people’s, still black? My first reaction was to brush the question aside with a quick response, but the more I thought about it, the more I realized what a very good question it was.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
You can run, but you can't hide
Sunday, July 4, 2010
What I Didn't Say
Facebook friends might remember a post of mine from about a year ago describing an ethical dilemma of sorts. On my way into the supermarket one early Saturday morning, a thin, strung-out looking woman approached me. She flashed a veteran’s I.D., explaining that she needed some money for gas in order to get to the V.A. hospital several miles away. Her hands and voice shook as she spoke. Should I give her some cash? I wondered. I come from NYC, where cynicism is a way of life. (Note – I was raised by a woman whose favorite summer saying was “Mr. Softee is a crook.”) Somewhere I’d heard never to give strangers money because they would probably use it to buy alcohol or drugs. Still, I wanted to be a good Samaritan – what if she were telling the truth? So, reluctantly, I pulled out a twenty (the only bill I had) and gave it to the woman, who thanked me profusely and drove away. My facebook post asked, should I or shouldn’t I have given her the cash?
Did you assume that the woman in the story was white? Since I didn’t mention her race, you probably did (a topic for a future blog), and if so, you were correct. What I didn’t have the courage to post at the time, but what I still wonder is this – would I have given her the money if she hadn’t been white? Would I have even engaged in conversation with her, or would I have waved her away and kept walking?
Author Lee Anne Bell notes that, “though mediated by class, gender, age, sexual orientation and other factors, whiteness accrues benefits.”* Although she seemed troubled in other ways, the woman that approached me possessed one unearned benefit – her whiteness, which made her feel safer to me. So, the question remains, would I have helped her if she hadn’t been white? I’m not sure, but it’s worth thinking about.
*Storytelling for Social Justice, p. 30.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Who's Poor?
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Talking About Race
Maybe some of you caught the CNN article arguing that President Obama needed to display a measured, calm response to the BP-Gulf crisis in order to avoid scaring whites with the “angry black man” stereotype. Many readers were offended and even disgusted by this argument, while others found it valid. One sentiment was strong – why do we have to keep talking about race?
Why is it that some of us don’t like to talk about race? Here are some possible reasons, based on research and my own experience in teaching a class in Multicultural Education for several years:
1. We have a black President now, which proves we’re a post-racial society.
2. Talking about race just makes things worse. We should move on.
3. Only racists think about race. The rest of us are colorblind.
4. People are individuals and should be judged thusly.
5. “Minorities” have it better than whites now.
Whatever the reason, it’s clear that the young people I know (students of color and whites alike) are not talking about race. They’re not talking about why some of them went to affluent schools and others received substandard educations that did not prepare them for college. They’re not talking about how some of them never got to know a person of color until they came to the grand metropolis of Phoenixville, PA. They’re not talking about how the only time they’ve ever heard race mentioned in their churches was when someone sang the immortal words, “Red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in His sight…” (and that’s a topic for another post).
Sadly, not talking about an issue doesn’t make it go away.
Saturday, June 12, 2010
The R Word
Sociologist Michael O. Emerson poses an interesting question: what’s the emotionally charged racial slur for white people? Is there an N-word equivalent for whites? There is such a word, Emerson concludes, but it’s not what you might think. It’s not “honky,” or “cracker.” It’s the R word, and in this case, R is for Racist. This is the word that makes middle class, open-minded, tolerance-preaching, politically correct whites like me cringe. “A student called me racist,” I once heard a white teacher say, “and it felt like someone kicked me in the stomach.” Why such a strong reaction? Because this woman cared about racism. She considered herself to be a fair, non-prejudiced person – colorblind, even. Calling her a racist, putting her in the same category as the ignorant Archie Bunkers of this world (or worse), was devastating because it challenged her opinion of herself as someone who has risen above the racism of past generations. And, thankfully, racism is a thing of the past.
Or is it? Archie Bunker may be long gone, but many (myself included) believe that we are far from being a “trans-racial” society. Everything changes, though, and racism has changed, too. This blog is about that change. It’s about racism in the forms it takes today, forms that can’t be understood by whites until we begin to think about what it means to be white. So this blog is about whiteness and white privilege, and about how, as scholar Michelle Fine says, “white rises to the top through seemingly neutral policies and practices.”
Why this blog? None of these ideas are new. People have been writing about whiteness and white privilege for decades now. However, in parts of my world (the world of a teacher educator in a small, mostly white, evangelical college) race in general and whiteness in particular are not exactly everyday topics of conversation. In fact, in this part of my world, the word “race” is hardly used, as if it is in some way distasteful – “ethnicity” seems to be the euphemism of choice. This blog is my attempt, for better or worse, to have an open, honest discussion about race among people who might not normally do so – my friends, peers, students, and anyone else interested. It’s an opportunity to talk about race and whiteness without fear of being called “the R word,” because calling names never helped anyone.
Michelle Fine, Witnessing Whiteness, Off White: Readings on Race, Power, and Society, 1997, p. 57-65.